DIVINE VASTU proposes ‘FORMULA-ONE’ for A HAPPY MARITAL
RELATIONSHIP
(ALL IN A NEW PERSPECTIVE)
“Alone I can SPEAK
But Together We Can TALK
Alone I Can SMILE
Together We Can LAUGH.
Alone I Can ENJOY
Together We Can CELEBRATE,
That's the Beauty of
Togetherness”
-Anonymous
‘United we
stand, divided we fall’
(‘संगठन में शक्ति होती है’)
Please Note: The use of Figure ‘1’ (ONE) here symbolizes either of
the Spouse (Husband or Wife).
NEGATIVE
RELATIONSHIP:
- 1-1=0 (One Minus One=Zero)
(One ‘MINUSES’ or ‘drains out’ another’s energy/potentials
bringing the relationship to ZERO/ Mutually Destructive). The couple enters the autonomy stage (this
is the stage where you are painfully aware of your differences, canceling each
other out, invalidating the other's point of view while defending your own,
turning against each other i.e. 1-1=0). When this happens, you both feel empty,
drained, vacant, and lifeless. At this point it is common for one or both
people to declare, 'I'd be better off alone!' And it makes sense that you would
feel that way, because a 1 (or even a 1/2) is more substantial than a 0!
- 1%1=1 (One Divides Another=Also ‘Zero’ but mathematically it’s 1)
(One ‘DIVIDES’ another which can brings the relationship to big
‘0’ / ZERO; Mutually Destructive; Depletion of Positive Energy, as already explained
above)
- 1X1=1 (Mathematically One Multiplied to One equals ONE but if couple is behaving for ‘cross’ purposes then the result is ‘ZERO’ again)
(One ‘CROSSES’
another which can also bring the relationship to big ‘0’ / ZERO; Mutually
Destructive)
The signs used
ABOVE ‘-’ (Minus); ‘X’ (Multiply/Cross);
‘%’ (Division) may depict some or all of the following traits in marital relationship:
·
Abusive
Behavior and Dishonesty
·
Extramarital
Affairs
·
Missing Sex
Life
·
Dominance,
Threats and Humiliation
·
Possessiveness/Over
Expectations
·
Contempt,
Insult and Criticism to put you down
·
Emotional
Abuse/Denial and Blame
·
Avoiding
and Ignorance
·
Jealous
accusations/Comparisons
·
Yelling/Nagging
·
Physical
Abuse, Violence, Pulling hair, pushing or other negative behavior
·
Selfishness
and Resentment
·
Laziness
·
Insecurity
POSITIVE
RELATIONSHIP:
- 1+1=2 (One PLUS One equals TWO which means A strengthening and Complimentary Relationship)
The sign ‘+’ (PLUS) used
here may depict some or all of the following traits in marital relationship:
·
Respect Your Partner; Agree to Disagree
·
Trust and Confidence
·
Be Supportive, Friendly and Honest
·
Respect Each Other’s Privacy
·
Compromise and Compliment and SHARE
·
Speak up/Communicate
·
Selfless and Cool
·
Freshness and Healthy Physical Intimacy
·
Have Fun and Joy Together
·
Fight Right: Fight well and to De-escalate Conflicts
·
Cherish your partner
·
Be Real and aware of each other’s strength and weaknesses
·
Forgive
THE
DIVINE RELATIONSHIP:
WHEN
ONE AND ONE EQUALS ELEVEN and on into ETERNITY:
·
‘EK AUR EK GYARAH HOTE HAI’ (‘एक और
एक ग्यारह होते
है’) in ‘Hindi’
language.
This relationship is MADE in HEAVEN with DIVINE BLESSINGS, that is, 1
& 1, the two individuals forgetting individual identity and removing all their
personal differences enhancing each other’s positive energy and supplementing
each other in every aspect of life making them inseparable with
TWO BODIES AND ONE
SOUL RESULTING IN A MAGIC FIGURE OF ‘11’ (ELEVEN) and on into ‘INFINITY’.
NOW THINK IT OVER AND
DECIDE YOURSELF WHAT KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT IN YOUR MARRIED LIFE.
“HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY, 2015”
Ph.D. (VASTU)
Divine Vastu, Inc. (Divine Vastu Consultations and Research Center)
